The cruelest hoax in history, and my side of the story →


As most of you know, I started talking to Joan after reading her comments on xojane. It was before her comments hit this site with one of the fastest virally spreading posts in our fanbase’s history on tumblr. My initial reaction was to protect her from all of his fans who would be angry. I myself…

SO grateful for this post. any conor fans should read it, especially if there is still any doubt in your mind that the accusation was false. 

Jul 22  via  ©   70 notes




Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt

You are NOT supposed to bleed

If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.

This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.

I just really want women to know this.

wait…. really?

yes really


Breakfast in Bed - Conor Oberst & Dntel 

ugh god

i always forget that this song exists then listen to it and it kills me again

Jul 22  via  ©   187 notes


These violent delights have violent ends

William Shakespeare

have you ever had a dream so vivid that you spend the whole day fucked off that it wasn’t real


This brought out the lesbian in us all

Jul 21  via  ©   6217 notes


Sun Kil Moon || Carissa

This whole album is so real it hurts

Jul 21  via  ©   525 notes


masculinity is so funny to me bc men deprive themselves of the best things in life in order to achieve it like ….fuzzy socks, fun fruity pink drinks, spa days, lifetime movies,  expressing positive feelings in a healthy way, being a warm genuine person

"Falling in love with yourself first doesn’t make you vain or selfish, it makes you indestructible."

—Things I’ll teach my children (via infl4ted)

jesus fucking christ sometimes i think i’m crazy

T A G S:  so done  

"Love, for you,
is larger than the usual romantic love. It’s like a religion. It’s
terrifying. No one
will ever want to sleep with you"

—Richard Siken, “Litany in Which Certain Things Are Crossed Out” (via sunposting)
Jul 20  via  ©   4358 notes

  1. The boy who takes your virginity is only going to love you long enough for you to stay in his bed.
  2. Your first job is never the best job. But you’ll meet some of your best friends there.
  3. Sometimes things don’t go the way you expect them to at all.
  4. People are usually never who they say they are.
  5. If you love someone, you need to tell them. Nobody is good at the guessing game.
  6. If your best friends don’t like the boy you’re involving yourself with, chances are he’s bad news.
  7. If a boy starts an invitation with, “Are you home alone”/”I’ll be home alone”, say no. You are a human being, not a toy to be played with.
  8. If some boy invites you to “the backseat of his truck”, he’s a piece of shit. Tell him to fuck himself.
  9. “Sorry” doesn’t always fix what you messed up.
  10. Stop wasting time wishing you could take back what you already did.
  11. You are at fault sometimes.
  12. There’s going to be a boy that you let get away. Yes, you loved him. It’s for the best, though.
  13. Toxic people hardly ever start off toxic.
  14. It’s always nice to make new friends, but never forget who your real friends are.
  15. Never lose the friends that would answer their phone at 3am if you called
  16. Never lose sight of who you are because of a boy.

—16 Things I Learned While Being 16 (via dizzyhemmings)


men like girls who “don’t know they are beautiful” because they are afraid that one day you will realise that you are the sun and the stars and he is nothing but a discarded plastic bag clogging up the ocean that you are






No, I’d say the show does a great job of representing the typical 18-34 male with Larry, with his constant need for validation, attention, and the world to revolve around him.

not to mention Bennet’s quest to prove that he’s a man, Pornstache’s overcompensation that disguises his vulnerability, Healy’s struggle to make positive change that is frustrated by his need to be loved by a woman, and Caputo’s exploration of his desire to control the world around him and whether or not he wants to do that.

men are quite accurately represented in the show, the only issue male viewers seem to have is that these men display the warped nature of man’s dominance, and the idea that their superiority is not perfect and noble is offensive.




Landlocked Blues, Bright Eyes

Jul 19  via  ©   107 notes